Early to Bed

Early to Bed is a pioneering feminist and LGBTQ+-friendly sex shop located at 5138 North Clark Street in Chicago’s Andersonville neighborhood. Founded in 2001, it has built a loyal following by offering something that traditional adult stores have not always managed particularly well: a bright, welcoming and genuinely inclusive place where people can explore pleasure without judgment, embarrassment or sleazy stereotypes. The business is woman-owned and especially attentive to women, queer and trans customers, although adults of every gender identity, sexual orientation, body type and level of experience are welcome.

The store is not a sauna, cruising venue or men-only establishment. It is a specialist adult boutique offering sex toys, intimate accessories and gender-expression products. Gay and bisexual men will find a broad range of useful items, including dildos, vibrators, anal toys, prostate massagers, cock rings, masturbation toys, harnesses, lubricants, safer-sex supplies and BDSM equipment. Products are selected with an emphasis on quality and body-safe materials, making the shop a reassuring option for anyone who wants more reliable advice than a mysterious online description and three suspiciously enthusiastic reviews.

Early to Bed’s atmosphere is central to its appeal. The interior is cheerful, organized and intentionally different from the dark, intimidating style associated with some old-fashioned adult stores. Customers are encouraged to take their time, ask questions and compare products without pressure. The staff are known for being knowledgeable, approachable and discreet. They can explain differences in materials, sizes, functions and care requirements while respecting personal boundaries. Whether you know precisely what you want or have absolutely no idea where to begin, nobody expects you to arrive with a doctorate in pleasure technology.

Inclusivity extends beyond the traditional sex-toy selection. Early to Bed also carries products related to gender expression and sexual wellness, including binders and other items useful to trans, non-binary and gender-diverse customers. This broader approach reflects the shop’s longstanding connection with Chicago’s queer community. Rather than treating LGBTQ+ shoppers as a niche audience, the store places their experiences, bodies and relationships firmly within its everyday understanding of sexuality.

Education also plays an important role. Early to Bed regularly hosts adult workshops dealing with subjects such as communication, BDSM, rope and sensation play, pelvic health, sexual confidence and pleasure. Events are held at the Chicago store and are open only to adults aged 18 and over. The calendar changes throughout the year, so travelers interested in attending a class should consult the official website before visiting. Some workshops require advance tickets and may sell out.

The shop is currently open from 11 am to 7 pm from Sunday through Thursday and from 11 am to 8 pm on Friday and Saturday. Customers must be at least 18 years old. Cash, credit cards and Apple Pay are accepted, and online orders can be collected in store. The premises are wheelchair accessible. Opening hours and event schedules may change, so checking the official information before making a special journey remains advisable.

Early to Bed is a particularly worthwhile stop for LGBTQ+ travelers exploring Andersonville, one of Chicago’s most queer-friendly neighborhoods. Come for expert advice, a thoughtful gift or a new addition to your private collection. You may leave better informed, pleasantly surprised and carrying a shopping bag whose contents are nobody else’s business.