Stoepa

De Stoepa is a relaxed restaurant and bar located at Oostmeers 124, conveniently positioned between Bruges railway station and the historic city center. Despite appearing in the misterb&b gay guide, it is not a specifically gay or LGBTQ+ venue. It is better described as an alternative, welcoming local hangout where gay travelers, couples and groups of friends can eat, drink and escape the most tourist-heavy streets of Bruges. After a day of canals, medieval façades and heroic quantities of Belgian chocolate, its laid-back atmosphere can feel like a refreshing change of scenery.

The venue calls itself an “eating and talking pub,” which captures its spirit rather well. De Stoepa is not a formal restaurant where guests are expected to whisper over immaculate white tablecloths. Its personality comes from a cozy, slightly bohemian interior, colorful details and an Oriental-inspired decorative style. The atmosphere is informal and sociable, making it equally suitable for a complete meal, a casual drink or a long conversation that somehow turns one beer into several. It attracts a mixed crowd of locals, students, travelers and regular customers rather than an exclusively tourist audience.

The extensive menu travels considerably farther than the average visitor may manage during a weekend in Bruges. European comfort food shares space with Asian-inspired dishes, including burgers, pasta, salads, wraps, curries, wok preparations and assorted street-food snacks. There are also soups, appetizers and desserts, including the playfully named “Hello to the Queen.” The broad selection makes De Stoepa practical for groups whose members cannot agree on a single type of cuisine. One person can order a burger, another a curry and somebody else a pasta dish without triggering an international diplomatic incident.

Vegetarian choices are normally available, but vegan travelers and guests with allergies should ask precise questions before ordering. A detailed independent review published after a visit in January 2025 reported uncertainty surrounding the ingredients in a supposedly vegan meal. The safest approach is therefore to explain dietary requirements clearly and request confirmation about sauces, dressings and accompaniments. The menu and prices can also change, so current information from the restaurant should take priority over older photographs circulating online.

One of De Stoepa’s greatest attractions is its large garden terrace. Hidden behind the building, this leafy courtyard offers a peaceful place to eat or enjoy a drink away from the crowds circulating through central Bruges. A heated winter terrace extends its appeal beyond the sunniest months, although the garden naturally becomes especially popular in pleasant weather. The drinks selection includes wines, cocktails and numerous Belgian beers. Reserving a table is a sensible idea when the terrace is likely to be busy or when visiting with a group.

Its location is particularly convenient for travelers arriving or departing by train. De Stoepa sits within easy walking distance of the station while remaining close enough to the historic center for dinner during a day of sightseeing. It does not provide a visibly queer environment, LGBTQ+ entertainment or the cruising energy some users of a gay guide may expect. Its appeal instead lies in its inclusively casual atmosphere, varied menu and popularity among locals.

De Stoepa is a good choice for gay visitors seeking a friendly, unpretentious restaurant with character rather than a dedicated gay venue. Come for a generous meal, linger over Belgian beer and claim a table in the garden whenever the weather cooperates. Opening times differ across online listings, so checking the official website or contacting the restaurant before setting out is strongly recommended.