Sofa bed in Central London, Elephant and Castle

I live with a Bengal cat named Hades, an energetic and curious companion who loves stimulation, play, and the occasional outdoor adventure on his lead or in his backpack. He roams the flat freely and enjoys interacting with guests, so anyone sharing the space should be comfortable with a lively cat who thinks he owns the place. I'm a lecturer in psychology and public health, working at the intersection of research and advocacy. I am also a director of an LGBTQ+ charity called Impulse London, which focuses on gay men's sexual and mental health. Outside of work, you'll often find me at the pub with friends or curled up on the sofa with a book. I read a lot—crime fiction, queer fantasy, and MM romance are my favourites. I also have a very social side: I love parties, gigs, and anything EDM or disco. I've even been known to take spontaneous trips, like heading to the Glitterbox closing party in Ibiza. Equally, I enjoy my nerdier side, spending one evening a week playing strategy games, card games, or new board games with friends. I have a PS5, and sometimes we all meet ******** Helldivers 2, Elden Ring, or Phasmophobia (even though I'm terrible at ******** describe me as easygoing, relaxed, and a bit chaotic. I believe life is more zesty with spontaneity and improvisation, so I try not to plan too much but above all, I love creating a space that feels welcoming, warm, and uncomplicated.