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Hosted by JLikes Food & Wine, Photography, Cooking

Private, comfortable, guest room with backyard garden views

Private room • La Mesa

Booked 126 times

4.93 (99)

Private, comfortable, guest room with backyard garden views

Clothing optional accepted • Parking • Kitchen

Larry·5·May. 2026· "What a fantastic place and fabulous hosts! The home was comfortable and the guys made me feel welcome! They are quite the plant enthusiasts... the grounds are like a botanical garden!"

Hosted by DavidLikes Dancing, Motor sports, Camping

Happy to share local tips

Private room • La Mesa

Booked 21 times

5 (15)

Private room in quaint house

Clothing optional accepted • Dedicated workspace

Michael·5·Jun. 2026· "David and his pup Charlie are the best hosts you can come across in all of California. The level of cleanliness surpasses luxury resorts like the Wynn, while the comfort of the beds and the above and beyond hospitality of David will ensure that if you are ever in San Diego and need a place to stay, you will always be welcome and comfortable at his lovely estate. Plenty of space, privacy and essentials provided. I don't have enough space in this review to tell you more, so book with him! 💙"

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