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Vine + Sand: NY Wine Country's Newest and Chicest B&B--Room 4
Vine + Sand: NY Wine Country's Newest and Chicest B&B--Room 4
John
Response rate: 100% • Response time: < 2h

Vine + Sand: NY Wine Country's Newest and Chicest B&B--Room 4

Southold, NY, United StatesMap
Exceptional5.0(1)Booked once
Private room
1 guest
1 Bedroom
1 Bathroom
1 bed
Wi-FiBreakfast includedDedicated workspacePoolHot tubParking

The Reveal

CozyGreat for Fitness LoversInsta-WorthyRelaxingCentral location

We're The Bossy Doxie Inn, and are a genuine, licensed B&B and the newest, chicest, B&B on the North Fork. This is your chance to experience this ********-ready, newly renovated B&B soft open. Your comfort and relaxation are our goal; designer flourishes are inside and out, filled with unique all-new furnishings...nothing has been overlooked.

You also will be welcome to our artist Salon, with works displayed from sculpture to paintings to photographs to ephemera.

We're Johnny and Mark, a married gay couple in our early 60s and have settled in the North Fork. Welcome to New York's Napa! We have completely renovated, curated by hotel designers FHS Design. The brand new pool and spa are up and running, as is our private fine arts salon, The Great Room. We're right on the Wine Trail; you can grab one of our new beach cruiser bikes and head out to the wineries or soak up the sun at our private beach, an easy mile away.

We're a gay couple but you should know that our B&B, while adults-only and VERY gay-friendly, is not gay exclusively and we welcome everyone.

The house was originally built in the 1820s and had later additions in the 1850s, 1910s and 1980s. The house has been completely renovated, inside and out, top to bottom, and furnished with casual comfort in mind.

We feature a sumptuous continental breakfast and coffee and tea is always available, as are light snacks and bottled waters in our guest fridge. The guest fridge also offers a storage drawer for each room. You'll also find ice, ice buckets and wine glasses.

In addition to your room and private bath you'll be welcome in our lounge with a seasonal wood-burning fireplace, the great room and outdoor areas including the front porch, the outdoor room with a fire table, the lawns and the expansive pool area.

THE POOL: The seasonal pool, spa and outdoor shower are brand new, and are available from 9am to 10pm. The spa is contained in the pool. All the outdoor water amenities are available seasonally, from May to October.

THE BIKES: Our brand new beltless bikes are free and available on a first come first served basis, and you'll need to sign a waiver and bring your own safety equipment if you think you need it. Please treat our bikes as your own and guard against theft or damage. Locks are provided. LANGUAGES: English Dansk Norsk Deutsch Español Français

SECURITY CAMERAS: We have 3 Ring doorbells located at the front, side and back doors.

PLEASE NOTE: Room prices include Suffolk County sales tax of 8.63% and hotel room tax of 5.5%.

How the beds work

Bedroom1 Double Bed

Little Luxuries

Wi-Fi
Breakfast included
Dedicated workspace
Pool
Hot tub
Parking
Air conditioning
Heating
Essentials
The Classics
Wi-Fi
Dedicated workspace
Pool
Breakfast included
Air conditioning
Terrace
Essentials
Hair dryer
Iron
Heating
Hot tub
Outdoor dining area
Parking
LGBTQ+ Favorites
Adult Only
Welcome
Pet owner
My location
Near beach
Countryside
City center
Near cultural venues
Fire protection
Smoke alarm
Carbon monoxide alarm
Fire extinguisher

Meet Your Proud Host

John5.0(5 reviews)
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Member sinceOct. 2017
Response rate100%
Response time< 2h
Spoken languages: Dansk, Deutsch, English, Español, Français
6 WINERIES IN UNDER A MILE NO CLEANING FEES NO EXTRA PERSON FEES FREE BIKES FREE BEACH PASSES We're a genuine, licensed B&B. Experience this ********-ready, newly renovated 1820 farmhouse. Your comfort and relaxation are our goal; designer flourishes are inside and out, filled with unique all-new furnishings. Our Salon features the latest in the arts: sculpture, painting, poetry, readings. Nothing has been overlooked. We're a married gay couple in our early 60s and have settled in the North Fork. Welcome to New York's Napa! We have completely renovated, curated by a professional hotel designer. The brand new pool and spa are up and running, as is our private fine arts salon, The Great Room. We're right on the Wine Trail; you can grab one of our new beach cruiser bikes and head out to the wineries or soak up the sun at our private beach, an easy mile away. Our home is your home. Johnny parle un excellent français y habla OK español (para un chico blanco). Mark taler perfkt dansk, og OK norsk. Wir sprechen OK Deutsche. ********
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Where It's All Happening

Southold, NY, United StatesExact location disclosed after booking only.
LGBTQ+ Safety Score: Southold
5out of 5Very safeRated by 1 local misterb&b members

House Rules & Conditions

Check-infrom 12pm
Checkoutto 3pm
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Adults Only Smoking allowed outside only Check-in hours are 4pm-8pm Checkout is at 11am No outside visitors allowed We're honest and you be too. We're respectful of you, so please be respectful of us, our other guests and very importantly, our neighbors. This is our home and we want you to feel very comfortable. We never have guests when we're out of town, so if you want to know something, just ask. We're here to help! *All guests need a full profile with ID verification, a clear, identifiable photo and completed profile which includes telling us who you are, what you do, and a little bit about your life. We also need to know about travelling companion. *If you're new to misterbandb or haven't made a proper profile it would be great if we knew something about you personally, as you know EVERYTHING about us. Remember, misterbandb is a social site, and a little friendly info goes a long way. Also if you are traveling with someone it would be better if we had a picture of you two. *Please don't smoke anything inside, but smoking outside is fine. *No additional guests unless previously agreed to; additional guests may not check in before the ******** account holder. *Any early arrivals (before 4:00 pm) or late arrivals (after 8:00 pm) need to be agreed to by us before booking, so please let us know if you have an unusual arrival time so we can see if we can accommodate you. *We live in a quiet neighborhood. Curfew for hanging out in the gardens is 11 pm on Sunday-Thursday and 12 am on Friday and Saturday. It's OK to duck out for a smoke, but please be respectful of the neighbors and keep voices down after these hours. *Close doors softly, especially during quiet hours. Please don't slam your bedroom door or bathroom door. *Please be very careful with our house keys. We give keys to ******** account holders only. If you lose the keys or fail to return them we will immediately re-key the door at your expense. *We will hold you to our published cancellation policy and it will be handled automatically by the misterbandb system, so please be sure before you book. If you need to cancel you need to contact misterbandb. *We reserve the right to change at our discretion any reservations (including instant book) over 7 days in duration from to moderate to strict cancellation policy rules. *POOL: Please observe pool hours. Glass containers are not allowed by the pool and we have provided plastic glasses. If you break glass in the pool it will have to be drained and refilled at your expense (approx. $1,500). Please shower off any oils or skin creams you may have used before getting in the pool. *BIKES: Our brand new chainless bikes are available for free use. There is a $900 per bike per charge to cover theft or destruction. You are solely responsible for damage or theft and bodily injury to yourself and/or others and you will need to sign a waver to use our bikes. Locks are provided; please bring your own safety gear if you think you need it. These bikes are brand-new so please treat them as your own. *Filming rates $5,000 per day. Still Photography rates $2,500 per day. Professional inquiries only. *For your protection and ours, we don't accept or extend reservations outside of the misterbandb system. *Most of all, have fun, enjoy our home!

Minimum stay (nights)1 night

1 night

DepositNot required by the Host

Not required by the Host

Licence / registration number86-1555213

86-1555213

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ReviewsExceptional5(1)

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Cleanliness5.0
Location5.0
Accurate description5.0
Check-in4.0
Value for money5.0

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JulianStayed in August 2024
Reviewed on Sept. 08, 2024

Wonderful hosts. The B&B is extremely well run, very comfortable and modern. Would highly recommend. It was a real pleasure staying there. Looking forward to coming back!

Exceptional5.0(1)