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Deej (&Gary)
Response rate: 100% • Response time: < 12h
Private room
2 guests
1 Bedroom
1 Bathroom
1 bed
Clothing optional acceptedWi-FiParking
The Reveal
Cozy
Bathroom is shared. Therefore bathroom door cannot be locked for any reason. There is to be no expectation of privacy in the bathroom at any time.
We both have been fully Covid vaxed & boosted. Property is not near public transport. No fragrance sensitivities of any kind please. You also have use of kitchen. If you want to stay past check out time or check in early, please book an extra day. Thanks.
How the beds work
Bedroom1 Double Bed
Little Luxuries
Clothing optional accepted
Wi-Fi
Parking
Air conditioning
Kitchen
Heating
Dishwasher
Dryer
TV
The Classics
Wi-Fi
Kitchen
Air conditioning
TV
Washer
Essentials
Hair dryer
Dishwasher
Dryer
Iron
Heating
Parking
LGBTQ+ Favorites
Adult Only
I offer massage
Welcome
Clothing optional accepted
Fire protection
Smoke alarm
Fire extinguisher
LGBTQ+ Kinky Amenities
Meet Your Proud Host
Deej (&Gary)5.0(24 reviews)
E-mail verifiedPhone verifiedID verified
Member sinceDec. 2013
Response rate100%
Response time< 12h
I like jogging, walking, biking and photography. Patti LaBelle is my fav entertainer. I believe in wearing facial masks and using hand sanitizer. I’m a Virgo if that means anything to you. Nudists welcome. Like being openly gay and giving hugs and massages .
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10 interests: LGBTQ+ History & Activism / Queer Art & Fashion / Queer Movies & Series / Queer Pop Icons / Psychology / Disco / RnB & Soul / Biking / Dancing / Running
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House Rules & Conditions
Check-infrom 12pm to 10pm
Checkoutto 7pm
Host recommendations
Please clean all hair from shower & sink . Please remove shoes upon entering & leave by the front door. Please lock front door when after entering & when exiting. If we leave porch light on for you, please turn it off when you arrive. Please turn on bathroom fan while showering to avoid mold please. Please park in front of our house not driveway. Facial mask optional.
StatusPrivate
Private
Extra per guest$5 per night after 1 guest(s)
$5 per night after 1 guest(s)
Minimum stay (nights)2 nights
2 nights
Cleaning fees$10 USD
$10 USD
DepositNot required by the Host
Not required by the Host
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ReviewsExceptional4.94(17)
Reviews come from verified guests, are sorted chronologically and not subjected to prior monitoring.
Cleanliness4.9
Location5.0
Accurate description5.0
Check-in4.9
Value for money5.0
Our Community Has Spoken:
BrianStayed in August 2025
Reviewed on Aug. 26, 2025
Deej and Gary are very nice. I felt right at home. The room also has a great table to sit at. Everything is very clean. My friends all stayed in downtown Olympia. It was a 15 minute drive for me to get to them.
JosephStayed in February 2023
Reviewed on Feb. 13, 2023
Deej and Gary made me feel welcomed and safe in their home. The room was so clean and had everything you could need. The pride decorations were so cute and you could tell they love to host, it made you feel right at home. Would definitely recommend this room and would stay again if I'm in the area.
BastienStayed in January 2023
Reviewed on Jan. 21, 2023
Wonderful as always! Thank you!
LuisStayed in October 2022
Reviewed on Oct. 15, 2022
It is the best experience that I have lived in my life, a luxury lodging, a super special welcome, kind, affectionate, respectful, attentive and very happy people, it is the best place to vacation. I recommend it for its excellence. Just perfect. I look forward to the time when I can return to Atl and stay here again. A space of love joy and happiness. Thanks thanks
BastienStayed in June 2022
Reviewed on June 27, 2022
I've had a wonderful stay. I was very busy during my stay but I could have not been more welcomed than the way Deej and Gary welcomed me into their home
TomStayed in May 2021
Reviewed on May 29, 2021
Deej was very welcoming and accommodating!
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KennyStayed in June 2018
Reviewed on July 02, 2018
Deej and Gary were both friendly hosts with a comfortable and clean condominium that is in a great convenient location. I enjoyed staying there with them and would definitely recommend to others!
RahsaanStayed in February 2018
Reviewed on Feb. 04, 2018
Deej was OVERLY welcoming into his beautiful and comfy home, and he has a true knack for making you feel extremely comfortable. I most definitely recommend, and I would stay again!!
GuilloryStayed in January 2018
Reviewed on Jan. 26, 2018
This is my second time with Deej and his husband, and always he's great! He's very patient with others and and amazing to have conversation with!