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Marc Dedonder
Marc Dedonder
January 1, 2026
Exploring Hawaii recently was a joyāso many unexpected sides!
Booked 22 times
4.92Ā (12)
Kehena Beach Gay/LGBTQIA+ Clothing Optional Ladder Loft
Clothing optional accepted ⢠LGBTQ+ venues nearby
KennethĀ·4Ā·Mar. 2025Ā·Ā "Very nice guesthouse with good location. Monday's potluck is a highlight"
Booked 17 times
5Ā (10)
Faris' Forest Farm offers a naturally inspired biophilic experience!
Breakfast included ⢠Kitchen
ThomasĀ·5Ā·Dec. 2024Ā·Ā "I had a wonderful week staying in a cabin near the main house. Patrick and Brian are the kindest hosts and a fount of knowledge on plants, Hawaiian history and culture and places to visit. The dogs, goat and other animals are equally friendly and you feel part of nature in the forest. You really need a car as it's quite tucked away, but it's easy to access the volcano area and the coast. The only inconvenience is that Mister B&B make the hosts collect local tax additionally, unlike other providers."
Booked 17 times
4.85Ā (13)
Kehena Beach - Gay/LGBTQIA+ Clothing Optional - Garden Room
Clothing optional accepted ⢠LGBTQ+ venues nearby
RichardĀ·5Ā·Jul. 2026Ā·Ā "Great room and great experience again. It's hard to beat feeling like you're sleeping in the canopy, and the staff and other guests were as friendly and helpful as always. Thanks again!"
Booked 16 times
4.86Ā (14)
Kehena Beach - Gay/LGBTQIA+ Clothing Optional - King Room
Clothing optional accepted ⢠LGBTQ+ venues nearby
BrianĀ·5Ā·Jan. 2026Ā·Ā "This is our third January in a row to hang out at Kehena Beach! We love this beautiful, relaxing, eclectic place. We had rain, we had sunshine, we had the black sand beach and wonderful meals in Pahoa and two great nights at Uncle Robert's community songfest and great food. The property borders the rain forest and is very much and tropical. Monday night BBQ, where locals bring in potluck, is just the best kind of gay energy you could ever want in such a tropical setting. Mat and staff are constantly making the setting more diverse and inviting. A new gym deck has just been built and there are a few pieces of equipment and weights. The black sand clothing optional beach is 10 minute walk. We meet really fun and interesting people staying here. This stay we got to visit Kilaeua's 40th eruption. Incredible! We are going back again in January 27. Go! It will be a wonderful, memorable experience. Thanks Mat and Jeff for providing this wonderful space!"

Hosted by Rob
Happy to share local tips
Entire place ⢠Kihei
New
2BR Condo in Sunny Kihei āSleeps 6- Entire Week of Aug 15 - 22nd, 2026
2 Bedrooms ⢠2 Beds ⢠2 Bathrooms
Booked 15 times
5Ā (11)
Very Private off- grid Cottage in Tropical Orchard near sea.
1 Bedroom ⢠2 Beds ⢠2 Bathrooms
JohnĀ·5Ā·Mar. 2026Ā·Ā "We stayed at Farmer Bill's place a few years ago and liked it so much we decided to book it again for a short stay. The cottage is separate from the residence and has its own access to the main road and the fresh fruit from the farm was an added and delicious bonus. Good location for the beach, the local coastline attractions, Pahoa and the Volcanos National Park!"

Hosted by RobertLikes Literature, Queer Art & Fashion, Theatre
Happy to share local tips
Entire place ⢠Honolulu
New
furnished unit just off of the Ala Wai canal. 2 blocks from the beach.
1 Bedroom ⢠1 Bed ⢠1 Bathroom
Booked 13 times
4.43Ā (7)
A Month in Hawaii Oceanfront Bali Cottage,Yoga,nude beach,waterfalls.
1 Bedroom ⢠1 Bed ⢠1 Bathroom
EllisonĀ·5Ā·Aug. 2022Ā·Ā "My husband and I, both āsenior citizensā, spent our first wedding anniversary at the Oceanfront Bali Hut, and it greatly exceeded our expectations!
Located along the famous Kapoho Kalapana Road, also known as the Red Road, the entire estate was beautifully landscaped, from the charm and ruggedness of the hut, down to the lava flats and the crashing ocean waves just beyond. We loved the outdoor kitchen/dining area which was perfectly situated under a pergola extending from the hut. With the food we bought from nearby markets, we had everything we needed to make great meals.
Down the path was a wonderful outdoor hot-water shower, fitting of a tropical rainforest. We enjoyed walking naked between the shower and the hut.
Weāre nature lovers, and were delighted with all the lush vegetation surrounding us, fruit and flowers were everywhere. The local wildlife included Saffron Finches, dazzling butterflies, and colorful little geckos, curious as to what we humans were up to. We also enjoyed feeding the two resident white ducks who roamed the estate.
Our entire time there, we had a deep sense of engagement with nature, and spent many hours relaxing under the pergola, watching the daytime turn into a moonlit nightscape, filled with a glorious chorus by the exotic frogs and crickets. Truly inspirational! The bed was extremely comfortable, and the Wi-Fi was excellent.
The entire place is invisible from the road, and we felt so safe that we never locked the front door during our stay. Dwight and Brian were very friendly and attentive, making sure our stay was exceptional. Weāve already decided to return for our second anniversary!
If youāre looking for a true island paradise hideaway, Oceanside Bali Hut is the real thing!
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Hosted by MateoLikes Movies, Musicals, LGBTQ+ History & Activism
Happy to share local tips
Entire place ⢠Kaaawa
New
Hale Ho'omaha = Relaxation + Short Walk to Beach
2 Bedrooms ⢠5 Beds ⢠1 Bathroom
Booked 12 times
5Ā (6)
Tranquil Garden Home Centrally located in Kihei
LGBTQ+ venues nearby ⢠Breakfast included
GillesĀ·5Ā·Dec. 2025Ā·Ā "First, the hosts, Chad & Alberto, are very friendly, helpful and accommodating.
They were very generous with me and upgrade me in a much nicer room.
Second, the location, Kihei is very nice with good restaurants (I recommend Nula's).
Also, it is not too far from a very special beach, the Little Beach at Makena Park!
Third, the home is very clean, well appointed and the backyard very peaceful!
Special award to Alberto for Christmas Decorations. He should get an award for that.
I'm looking forward to visit them again, but it is very far from home (France)
and I certainly recommend others to do so. Gilles"

Hosted by Normand and KellyLikes Surfing, Yoga & Meditation, Water sports
Happy to share local tips
Private room ⢠PÄhoa
New
Isle of You Naturally in your Private Cabin - copy 01
Clothing optional accepted ⢠Gym nearby
Booked 11 times
5Ā (8)
Isle of You Naturally in your Private Cabin
Clothing optional accepted ⢠Gym nearby
CodyĀ·5Ā·Aug. 2024Ā·Ā "Isle of You is an incredible getaway in a beautiful part of the Big Island! The cabin was clean, well organized, and had everything you needed. Kelly and Normand were extremely attentive and communicative leading up to the stay. I couldn't have asked for a better place to go off the grid and enjoy nature in Hawaii. I hope to come back soon!"

Hosted by Rowly
Happy to share local tips
Entire place ⢠Waimea
New
Luxury 5-bedroom Resort Estate Best Ocean View on Hawaii
5 Bedrooms ⢠5 Beds ⢠6 Bathrooms
Gay Welcoming ScoreRated by LGBTQ+ travelers
Ranked#1 Hotel
Instant booking
Hotel **** ⢠Honolulu
Booked 7 times
4.86Ā (7)
Polynesian Hostel Beach Club
Wi-Fi
Booked 7 times
5Ā (5)
Downtown Tropical Garden Hideaway
2 Bedrooms ⢠2 Beds ⢠1 Bathroom
RobertĀ·5Ā·Dec. 2025Ā·Ā "Michael is such a gracious host, and he has great recommendations for hikes, beaches and tours. His rental unit is cozy and just right for 2 people, tucked away with total privacy. Very close to town for easy walking to stores, coffee and downtown restaurants. It's a great value for several nights on the east side of the island. Bonus: His cats will poke their head in for a visit if you leave the door open for air flow!"
Gay Welcoming ScoreRated by LGBTQ+ travelers
Instant booking
Entire place ⢠Honolulu
Booked 6 times
4.83Ā (6)
Skyline Island Colony Hotel
Wi-Fi ⢠Pool ⢠Hot tub
Booked 6 times
5Ā (4)
Stylish Tatami Shack - Comfort and Class in the Heart of Nature
Breakfast included ⢠Parking ⢠Heating
TimĀ·5Ā·Nov. 2024Ā·Ā "The experience at Lou's and Tony's Kaawaloa Trail Farm was just amazing! After finding my way uphill through a narrow private road through the forest, I slept in a beautifully designed little cabin just outside their house with my own little patio, a big tatami bed with lots of blankets (it got a bit chilly in November) and a little kitchenette, which had a few foods available as well as tea and some of their own coffee. While the two hosts were mainly working on the farm or downhill in the town, they were outstandingly accommodating! Definitely don't miss out on the breakfast with all the amazing freshly-harvested fruits such as custard apple and passion fruit! Total recommendation!"




























































































