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6 Creative Ways to Spend Gay Thanksgiving in the US
Oct. 09 2019
by Lachlan

6 Creative Ways to Spend Gay Thanksgiving in the US

While temperatures are normally chilly towards the end of November in the US, things heat up on the fourth Thursday of the month for the country’s annual Thanksgiving. For 2019, Thanksgiving will fall on November 28, giving you plenty of time to plan the perfect way to celebrate. Traditionally, Thanksgiving was a harvest festival, in which pilgrims and native Americans would celebrate their first harvest with an elaborate feast that would normally last for several days. Today, Thanksgiving is a national holiday in the US, with many people also marking the significant day with an abundant lunch or dinner.

Thanksgiving has become synonymous with family and friends: a time to connect with one another both near and far, and share a celebratory lunch or dinner together for the day. Yet for some this is not always the case. Certain may be alone during Thanksgiving, while others choose to make an entire vacation out of the day, extending the holidays over the weekend. For those wanting to do something different from the traditional feast, we’ve rounded up 6 creative ways to celebrate a gay Thanksgiving in the US, with everything from gay travel in Provincetown to parades in NYC. So how will you be celebrating?   


Soak up a bit of culture

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Thanksgiving is ultimately an annual holiday that honors the harvest of pilgrims and native Americans, so why not celebrate the special day with something cultural like a parade? Here are our picks for some of the best Thanksgiving parades in the US:  


What? Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade

Where? New York 

©Flickr/Phil Roeder

Fancy the idea of regressing to your childhood for a day of fun in NYC? Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade will be coloring the streets of the Big Apple on November 28, with 2019 marking its 93rd edition. Attracting more than 3.5 million people, this is one fun and collective way to be celebrating Thanksgiving. 


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What? Uncle Dan’s Thanksgiving Parade

Where? Chicago

©Flickr/Randy Escalada

This firm staple of Chicago initially began as a Christmas Parade as far back as 1934, but it is now celebrated each year for Thanksgiving. As per usual, you can expect large character balloons, marchings bands, and clowns. While you’ve have to rug up for this parade, the entertainment will be worth it. 


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What? America’s Thanksgiving Parade

Where? Detroit


Happen to be in Detroit this Thanksgiving? You need to get yourself to America’s Thanksgiving Parade. Tied with Macy’s as the second-oldest Thanksgiving Parade in the US, this incredible event first started in 1924, and has been a regular staple of the city ever since. You can look forward to a sea of clowns, floats, bands, balloons, and an appearance by Santa Claus. 


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What? 6ABC Dunkin Donut’s Thanksgiving Parade   

Where? Philadelphia


Dating back to 1920, this is the oldest Thanksgiving Parade in the US, and sure packs a punch as far as fun goes. As with most other Thanksgiving Parades across the country, you’ll be treated to a series of floats, dance teams, celebrities, and giant balloons. So will we be seeing you in Philly for this incredible parade?    


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A gaycation somewhere fabulous


Want to make a weekend out of Thanksgiving? Whether you’re traveling solo, with friends, or with family, this is the ideal time to go on a cozy vacation somewhere in the US. With loads of different misterb&b apartments across the country, you’ll also be able to find the perfect place to stay. Here’s our curated list of top gay destinations for Thanksgiving: 




When the Pilgrims first settled on the shores of the US, they arrived at Plymouth on Cape Cod Bay. Just opposite lies dreamy Provincetown, which is often referred to as a heart of gay culture in the US, and is a very fitting destination to celebrate Thanksgiving. The main thoroughfare of Provincetown is Commercial Street, which is packed with cafes, bars, and restaurants, and for a memorable Thanksgiving lunch, we suggest booking the Governor Bradford Restaurant & Bar. It’s also housed in a quintessential Provincetown weatherboard building, adding to the coziness. 


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Fort Lauderdale 


Similarly to Provincetown, Fort Lauderdale is a gay hotspot in the US, with throngs of gay travelers heading to this seaside town of Florida throughout the year. If you like the idea of celebrating Thanksgiving by the coast, this is a great destination for you. In terms of Thanksgiving lunches, you can either choose to whip up a storm in your very own misterb&b apartment, or alternatively head to the town’s gayborhood, Wilton Manors, where you’ll find a heap of cafes and restaurants.  


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Craving a dose of cool for your Thanksgiving holiday? Lock in a trip to Portland, and mingle with the hipsters over your Thanksgiving feast. The largest city of Oregon, gay Portland may be best known for its charming mix of microbreweries and coffee shops, and its overall dedication towards eco-friendliness. It is also extremely gay-friendly, meaning you’ll be able to easily integrate into the local scene here, no matter who you happen to be traveling with.


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Party, party, party


If you don’t have any plans to celebrate a typical Thanksgiving lunch with loved ones, how about shaking things up and stray from tradition with a crazy party instead? There are plenty of cool gay parties and festivals taking place across the US and beyond for Thanksgiving. Here’s our round-up of some of the best:  


What? White Party Thanksgiving Puerto Vallarta

Where? Puerto Vallarta

When? November 29 - December 1

©Facebook/White Party

We know Puerto Vallarta is not in the US, but it’s easily accessible from most parts of the country, and when you have a White Party for Thanksgiving up for grabs, how could you say no? For three days, White Party Puerto Vallarta will host a series of circuit-style parties, including the main event House of Olympus, which will take place at Mantamar Beach Club and welcome international DJ GSP (Greece). 


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What? Thanksgiving Appreciation Party

Where? Maracas Night Club, NYC

When? November 28

©Facebook/Maracas NY Nightclub

Happen to be in New York over Thanksgiving, and looking for a lively party to dance the night away at? Head to Richmond Hill in New York, and celebrate at Maracas Night Club. The club will be hosting a Thanksgiving Appreciation Party, and will include HipHop, Afro beats, and Dancehall. Running until 4am, this will be one mid-week party worth attending for your Thanksgiving. While not exclusively gay, the open crowd here will make you feel welcome. 


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What? A bar crawl through WeHo

Where? WeHo, Los Angeles  


West Hollywood, commonly referred to as WeHo by locals, is one of the most iconic and popular gayborhoods in the US, and it sure knows how to throw a good time any period of the year. If you find yourself in LA over Thanksgiving, and you haven’t prepared anything specific, why not venture to WeHo, and cruise the many bars and clubs for the night? Popular haunts include Mickeys, Rage, and The Abbey which functions as a restaurant, bar, and nightclub. Alternatively, Downtown is also worth checking out as it has slowly been attracting an LGBTQ crowd, and offers some great entertainment options.  


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An experience with the most


If you happen to be alone over the Thanksgiving holiday, or you simply want to do something different from the usual lunch or dinner, how about signing up for a misterb&b experience? Through an experience, you’ll not only have the chance to meet and connect with new people, but you’ll also return home with some new knowledge or an exciting skill. Here’s our pick of top experiences in the US for Thanksgiving.  


What? Napa and Sonoma Wine Tour

Where? San Francisco

When? November 30 & December 1


If you’re looking for something unique to do for the day, and you happen to be within the San Francisco - Bay Area, why not pencil in this fantastic Napa and Sonoma Wine Tour experience? You’ll be picked up from San Francisco, taken over the Golden Gate Bridge, and then guided on a wine tour of this renowned region. And in keeping with the concept of a feast for Thanksgiving, lunch will also be provided - after all, it’s never wise to drink on an empty stomach! 


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What? Cooking Class

Where? New York

When? November 30 & December 1


Tradition has it that Thanksgiving is all about food. From harvesting to eating, this day of all days is one where you have no excuses not to go for that second serving at the dinner table. If you’re a little rusty in terms of cooking, and dream of one day hosting your very own Thanksgiving dinner, why not freshen up your skills with a cooking class in New York? Taking place at Home Cooking New York in Soho, and led by Jennifer, you can sign up for two different classes this Thanksgiving: a bagel and soft pretzel workshop on Saturday and a southern brunch on Sunday.   


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Hosting with the most

What? A traditional Thanksgiving feast

Where? Your misterb&b


Like to keep things traditional? Why not honor the pilgrims who came before us and host a decadent feast for Thanksgiving? Whether you’re hosting people in your own misterb&b, or you’re a guest staying with a host in their misterb&b, a Thanksgiving dinner could be a great chance to connect with one another and share a memorable experience. Even if you’re traveling as a group and you decide to book an entire apartment rather than staying with a host, most accommodation options on misterb&b come complete with fully-equipped kitchens, so there’s no reason not to get the oven on for a feast!    


Come Out!


Whether you’re out of the closet or not, Thanksgiving also has another modern-day association other than a harvest celebration. For many Americans these days, Thanksgiving is also synonymous with an unofficial coming out day, with significant data revealing that the family lunch or dinner is the ideal time and place to deliver the news. Word has it that the timing of Thanksgiving coincides well with uni students who are returning home after their first semester of University in September and October. So if you had been toying with the idea of coming out, while not follow ‘modern-day tradition’, and deliver the news at your next Thanksgiving dinner?

So whether you intend to sit down with the family over a decadent Thanksgiving feast and perhaps come out, or you’re sold on the idea of dancing the night away at a crazy White Party in Puerto Vallarta, be sure to celebrate your gay Thanksgiving 2019 with a bang!

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