Exploding 4 Myths About Traveling Abroad As An LGBTQ+ Student

Mar. 27 2025

by Marc Dedonder

Studying abroad is an exciting experience that can change your life. Whether you're dreaming of sipping espresso in Italy, visiting Patagonia, or immersing yourself in some of the best study abroad programs in the world, the opportunity to live in another culture is invaluable - even if temporary. But if you're an LGBTQ+ student, you might have concerns about how your identity will be received in a different country. You’ve probably heard horror stories or warnings from well-meaning friends and family. However, not everything you hear is true. Let’s debunk four common myths about traveling abroad as an LGBTQ+ person so you can confidently embark on your adventure.

Myth #1: Don’t Go! Everywhere Outside of the U.S. is Unsafe for LGBTQ+ Travelers

While it’s true that some countries have strict anti-LGBTQ+ laws (some even punishable by draconian methods), there are more places around the world now that are welcoming and affirming. Countries like Canada, the Netherlands, Spain, Germany, and Argentina have strong legal protections for LGBTQ+ individuals, and cities like London, Berlin, and Bangkok have thriving queer communities. 

Instead of listening to what everyone is saying or what you see on social media, do some legitimate research. Look into local LGBTQ+ rights, expat experiences, and travel advisories. Universities and study abroad programs often have resources or partner schools to help you navigate cultural differences safely. Use tools like the ILGA World LGBTQ+ Rights Map, U.S. State Department LGBTQ+ travel resources, and LGBTQ+ travel blogs to get a realistic picture of your destination.

Myth #2: You Seriously Have to Go Back in the Closet While Abroad!

Many students worry that traveling abroad means hiding their identity to avoid discrimination. While it’s true that some cultures are more conservative than others, this doesn’t always mean you have to erase your identity. Instead, it’s about adapting to your surroundings and practicing situational awareness (as long as you’re in a region you know is safe for you).

In some places, LGBTQ+ identity is celebrated openly, while in others, it may be less visible but still present. Connecting with local LGBTQ+ communities, online expat groups, and university LGBTQ+ organizations can help you find safe spaces to express yourself. Follow local LGBTQ+ influencers on social media, look for LGBTQ+ student clubs in your host university, and research LGBTQ-friendly cafés, bookstores, and social spaces in your study abroad city.

Myth #3: But, Study Abroad Programs Aren’t LGBTQ+ Inclusive!

While some study abroad programs may not advertise their LGBTQ+ inclusivity, many actively support LGBTQ+ students. Major study abroad providers like CIEE, IES Abroad, and SIT Study Abroad offer LGBTQ+ resources; some even have specific scholarships for LGBTQ+ students.

University international offices are also becoming more aware of LGBTQ+ students’ needs, offering pre-departure orientations that cover LGBTQ+ safety, housing accommodations, and cultural expectations. If inclusivity isn’t explicitly mentioned in a program’s materials, don’t hesitate to reach out and ask. If you're unsure about a program’s inclusivity, ask questions like: "Does this program offer gender-inclusive housing?" "Are there LGBTQ+ resources or support services available for students?" and "Can I connect with past LGBTQ+ students who have studied abroad in this location?"

Myth #4: LGBTQ+ Relationships and Friendships Will Be Hard to Find!

A common fear is that making LGBTQ+ friends or dating abroad will be difficult, but in reality, many LGBTQ+ travelers find vibrant queer communities wherever they go. From LGBTQ+ student groups to pride events and queer-friendly cafés, opportunities for connection exist in most major cities.

For dating, U.S.-based apps also work in many countries, though local alternatives may be more popular. Always research the legal and cultural context of LGBTQ+ relationships in your destination before engaging in dating or meeting new people. weere by misterb&b is a brand new community that can help you plug into the local community by letting you connect with locals and even find and plan activities together. Before using dating apps, look up safety tips for LGBTQ+ travelers in your country. Some apps have security features that protect users in countries where LGBTQ+ people face discrimination, and at misterb&b, you will always know that the connections you make  - even in housing - will be safe for you. 

As an LGBTQ+ college student, studying abroad can be an empowering experience that expands your worldview and connects you with global queer communities. But you must start researching, planning, and connecting with the right resources to make your travel experience safe and enriching. Now, pack your bags and get out there!

Loved this? Check out our 5 Steps to Keep Safe While Traveling Abroad As an LGBTQ+ Student