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Very cozy private room with all the comforts of home.
Very cozy private room with all the comforts of home.
Steve
Response rate: < 30% • Response time: a few days

Very cozy private room with all the comforts of home.

La Mesa, California, United States•Map
Exceptional5.0(20)Booked 33 times
Private room
1 guest
1 Bedroom
1 Bathroom
1 bed
Clothing optional acceptedWi-FiBreakfast includedPoolHot tubParking

The Reveal

Downtown gaslight bar scene, Mexico, beaches (including a nude beach), casinos, the convention center, Coronado and our world famous San Diego zoo. Covid-19 safe environment. 3 nights minimum during Comic Con. Pool and jacuzzi on premises. A full size adjustable bed with massage feature, a TV, a wide size lounge recliner, a computer desk and chair, a ceiling fan, and drawer and closet space are all in the room. Central heat and air, if weather warranted, and a washer and dryer are available. Breakfast included.

How the beds work

Bedroom1 Double Bed

Little Luxuries

Clothing optional accepted
Wi-Fi
Breakfast included
Pool
Hot tub
Parking
Air conditioning
Kitchen
Heating
The Classics
Wi-Fi
Kitchen
Pool
Breakfast included
Air conditioning
TV
Washer
Essentials
Dishwasher
Dryer
Heating
Hot tub
Parking
Welcome
Pet owner
Clothing optional accepted

Meet Your Proud Host

Steve
5.0(20 reviews)
E-mail verifiedPhone verified
Member sinceDec. 2015
Response rate< 30%
Response timea few days
Spoken languages: English
Hello. My name is Steve. We, my roommate and I (his name is also Steve), have opened up the 3rd bedroom in a 3 bedroom condo to become your home away from home. WiFi is included in the room. We have air and heat for your comfort, a washer and dryer, and some house privileges. The complex also has a pool and a Jacuzzi for your convenience. The bathroom is large with two sinks. The room sleeps 2 comfortably. As for us, we enjoy current events, history, politics, cooking, sports, and much more. So, come and stay with us, we hope you enjoy your stay. We have tried to do everything we can to make sure that the room is comfy, clean. welcoming, and that you have all of the conveniences of being at home. Very sorry, but no smoking is allowed in the room or in the house, and no pets. Otherwise, our home is your home. :) We only take bookings for the week of Comic Con one week in advance of your arrival. There's a 4 night minimum for that week. Booking that week (typically the 3rd week of July), if you want to book it further in advance, would require a nonrefundable ********. Though we do go to great lengths to keep the room closed up and cat free, anyone with severe cat allergies should take our having a cat into consideration before making reservations.
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Where It's All Happening

La Mesa, California, United StatesExact location disclosed after booking only.
LGBTQ+ Safety Score: La Mesa
5out of 5Very safeRated by 20 local misterb&b members

Nearby Attractions

Coronado, Mexico, La Jolla, Zoo, gaslight bar night life, gay bar area moments away, Convention center, several casinos...... and more.

House Rules & Conditions

Check-infrom 12pm to 11pm
Checkoutto 1pm
Host recommendations

No smoking, don't kill us in our sleep 🤪, and respect our neighbors. We still have to live here once you are gone. But seriously, we just want you to feel as comfortable here as you would in your own home. Since we have a lot of guests who enjoy the nudist lifestyle, we have no problem with you wanting to feel as comfortable as you would at home. You do you, it's not a problem with us. We, however, aren't nudists. We just aren't prudes. There is a 4 night minimum during the week of Comic Con. Breakfast included. I typically have breakfast rolls and/or I have a breakfast dish cooked (usually scrambled eggs and a meat and potato) in advance and put in the fridge so you can pop it in the microwave if we aren't up. One of us is almost always up to get coffee started and help you find your way through the kitchen.

Extra per guest$10 per night after 1 guest(s)

$10 per night after 1 guest(s)

Minimum stay (nights)2 nights

2 nights

Cleaning fees$10 USD

$10 USD

DepositNot required by the Host

Not required by the Host

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ReviewsExceptional5(20)

Reviews come from verified guests, are sorted chronologically and not subjected to prior monitoring.

Cleanliness5.0
Location4.9
Accurate description5.0
Check-in5.0
Value for money5.0

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JamesStayed in April 2023
Reviewed on Apr. 08, 2023

These guys were great hosts! They're very flexible to what a guest needs! I highly recommend booking this location. If you like to try local restaurants and stores, this place is well-situated with options within walking distance.

Jorge antonioStayed in October 2022
Reviewed on Oct. 13, 2022

Steve is an excellent host, he really makes you feel at home. My flight was delayed for hours and he took the time to pick me up, show me the amenities, and introduce me to the room! A super comfortable smart bed, he was accessible at all times and available for any questions. His house is impeccable, I loved it and of course I will return!

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GeorgeStayed in August 2022
Reviewed on Aug. 04, 2022

I want to make sure that the hosts, both named Steve, get a full five star report from me. I even gave the location a five star rating --I knew exactly where it was. It is on the La Mesa/San Diego border. Though not in a gay neighborhood, it is close to the freeway, so Hillcrest is just driving minutes away. The whole house was spotless, and though the bathroom I used was across the hall from my bedroom, it did not appear that the hosts used it while I was there. Both hosts, interesting and congenial, were as conversant as I wanted. It was also very quiet. Another GREAT benefit of staying there was the full breakfast (eggs, sausage, potatoes, a muffin, coffee, orange juice is what I had this morning) they provided. The adjustable bed was very comfortable, and they kept the air conditioned house comfortably cool, which I appreciated. Their condo is in a large condo complex with no through traffic. I felt my car was safe there. The bottom line is that the Steves have a lot to offer to make their guests comfortable and safe--and fed. A full Five Star Report from me. George

KennyStayed in July 2022
Reviewed on July 18, 2022

The condo is exactly as described. It is very clean and comfortable. Steve was a great host and went out of his way to make sure we had everything we needed. I recommend this condo. It's only a 15 minute drive to Hillcrest.

EricStayed in July 2022
Reviewed on July 16, 2022

Great experience, loved staying with the Steves, it was a clean apartment and felt super accommodating. 100% would stay again.

JohnStayed in August 2021
Reviewed on Aug. 17, 2021

Great location with easy freeway access to get to Downtown San Diego. Great price and value for the accommodations and friendly hosts. Unfortunately my stay was very short due to scheduled obligations but it a much better and affordable experience than staying in hotel. Was nice to enjoy a movie together and sit and chat with both Steves.

RyanStayed in July 2021
Reviewed on July 19, 2021

This is a very cozy room, tucked away in about as central of a spot in San Diego that you're going to find. The Steve's are some of the friendliest guys you can meet and will take excellent care of any guest. The balcony is a great relaxation spot and gives an excellent Eastern view of San Diego. There's gas, food, groceries, and the highway right outside of the complex - you have everything you need and easy access to travel anywhere you may want to go! Be sure to talk to them about recommended films to watch, they'll hook you up!

SeanStayed in April 2019
Reviewed on Apr. 09, 2019

Great property, easy to access location, and it was nice that a parking space was available. Chatting with one of the two Steves was very fun. I'm sad I didn't get to meet the other Steve. Great value for the price!

PaulStayed in November 2018
Reviewed on Nov. 09, 2018

I had a conference at the San Diego Convention Cntr & didn't want to deal with traffic or high hotel costs, but rather take the trolley as I have in the past. Steve's place is IDEAL to get to downtown San Diego, including the Gaslamp District. Steve is very friendly, showed me the nearby station-within 5 min & with free parking. Used his complex pool and hot tub. Good restaurants are around his area too. The room was complete w/ seating & TV. Everything was spotless. I hope to stay there again.

PnameStayed in September 2018
Reviewed on Sept. 16, 2018

Enjoyed my stay in San Diego. Hosts are very helpful and easy-going - they even carried my luggage up-and-down the staircases for me! I was able to come-and-go as needed. I enjoyed a comfortable and spacious private bedroom with good amenities. Access to a private patio was nice. Community pool and jacuzzi were relaxing. It's about a 15 minute drive on the freeway to Hillcrest (gay village) near downtown, but there are plenty of other restaurants and retail much closer. Parking was convenient.

Exceptional5.0(20)